We are starting to see the light at the end of the tunnel with our legal situation. And it looks like, for now, out costs will not be as high as we had thought. Due to this we will be shoveling all our excess into our first, most important debt. The collections account D has. With this being paid off he can finally start to see his credit actually bounce back! Though I continue to think, when will all of these puzzle pieces fit together for us to have our perfect financial peace? A couple things I have to remind myself:
1. I am 23 (turning 24 this month), fresh out of college... Things take time. There is no possible way I am going to take the elevator up the corporate ladder at my company, it's just not feasible. Work hard at what you do and that will show to others and help to further your position!
2. Don't compare yourself to your parents! They are about 30 years older than you! They have been in the workforce for that much longer (see above as to how hard they worked and how long it's taken them to get there).
3. Don't compare yourself to your friends. They may not have debt, they may have a home, they may have the beautiful children you hope for in the future. But each of these friends does not have the same financial situation you have. Focus on your successes and the steps you need to make to better yourself.
Now to plan for this wedding! We have planned on September 2015, and have started collecting glass jars and containers to decorate with! Thank goodness I'm crafty!
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